Lavender Life Ceremonies

Words from ‘my’ families

Some of the kind words of thanks received from the families I have had the privilege to meet and assist in the creation of the perfect service for their loved one.

It is always humbling to be welcomed into families lives and homes at such a difficult time. It is always an honour knowing I have played a part in making the toughest of days more bearable and that between us we have delivered the most fitting farewell.

Every life is unique. 

Every life, however long, is meaningful. 

Every life tells a special story.

It would be my privilege to tell your loved one’s story.

We would like to thank you for all your support in writing our Mum’s eulogy. We were astounded by just how much information you were able to write on the day we met prior to our Mum’s funeral. It was a great comfort to us both that you were there with us on the day, not only to read our Mum’s wonderful eulogy but to support and guide us through what we knew would be a difficult day for us all. We felt you were very much part of our family on the day. We both feel you are a truly amazing person to be able to carry out your job in such a caring and professional manner and we really don’t know how we would have managed without you.Thank you again and best wishes.” K.B. and K.B.

“Thank you so much for all you have done for us at such a difficult time. A lot of people came and said what a lovely service it was. They sang your praises!! S.C-P.

What can I say? I am overwhelmed – all the phones haven’t stopped ringing, everyone saying it was the best funeral they have ever been to. You did a fantastic job. Thank you so very much, it is really appreciatedM.W. and H.W. and C&J.S.

“Just a quick note to say thank you for putting together the eulogy and the compassionate way you conducted the service on Thursday. It was mentioned you captured Nan in a realistic down to earth way which all the family could relate to. Thank you and Many ThanksD&K.O.

We want to say a very big thank you for all your hard work and for making Friday such a special day for us both. It really couldn’t have gone any better. Many thanks again. Every good wish” J&F.M.

“We would just like to say a very big thank you to you for what you did for us all at my Nan’s funeral yesterday. As funerals go we would like to say it was one of the best services we have gone to.Thank you” J.R.

“I just wanted to say a big thank you for the lovely service you gave my Dad on 12th January. He would have been chuffed to bits by the amount of people that attended his funeral…Thank you so much for all the effort you put into the service to make it truly memorable for us as a family and everyone who attended. With kindest regards” C&J.S.

Thank you again for the lovely service Friday. It was all I wished for MumS.R.

Thank you so much on behalf us all for the lovely, thoughtful service on Friday for Uncle Bert. We will forever have memories of him and these will never diminish. Thank you also for the bound copy of the service. A lovely treasure to keep.” S&P.W.

“You have done a wonderful job – (the script) reads beautifully” R.E.

Claire, I just wanted to say how amazing you were at Gerry’s service. It was very personal and came from your heart. Many people afterwards asked if you were a friend. Thank you so much for all your support at such a difficult time. Take care and much love” J.M.

Thank you Claire. The words are very moving and I am most grateful for the tribute to Dad. Words cannot express my thanks to you.” A.P.

“Myself and Mi Mi would like to thank you for the service yesterday and all your hard work preparing for it – it was so much appreciated and I felt it was more remembering than goodbye.” S.P.

“We all love what you’ve done. Many Thanks” M.H.

“An excellent job!” S.P. 

Dear Claire, Many thanks for all your help, guidance and support with the funeral planning. You were so helpful, calm and reassuring and we immediately felt content that Dad would be happy with our choice/with you. Also thanks for your brilliant delivery in the chapel, we received very positive feedback on the service. Your voice carried well and even those at the back and in the balcony were able to enjoy everything. The service was well attended and we felt happy we had given Dad/Denis a good send off. A couple of friends have also asked for your details – in case needed. Best wishes and thanks J.B. C.B and S.B.

“Dear Claire, I am so sorry it has taken me so long to send this message, I cannot believe how quick the last week has gone. Thank you so much for the beautiful service you did for Mum last week. I had so many lovely comments about how perfect the service was and how you delivered it. Before I met you I was panicking over what I was going to be able to say, but you made it so easy and I will aways be grateful for that. Your kindness, understanding and support was very touching. Thank you so much. Kindest regards” J.M.

“Dear Claire, We just wanted to thank you so much for conducting the service so wonderfully yesterday, and for all your care, professionalism, and kindness over the last week. It was hugely appreciated, and I couldn’t have asked for anyone better to have conducted Mum’s final farewell. Many people commented afterwards on what a lovely service it was and thought you were a family friend because it was so personal and heartfelt – thank you.With all good wishes” A.P.

“Dear Claire, Many thanks for all your help. The service went so well. Numerous relatives commented how lovely it was and were sure Mum would have approved! Thank you too for the mementoes – a really kind thought. With our warmest wishes: G.G and R.J.

Hello Claire, I cannot tell you how comforting your tribute for John was. In fact several people thought you must have been a long time friend of the family it felt so familiar. With the empathy you have, you are definitely in the right profession. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.” J.U.

“The script is fantastic! It sounds as though you have been living with the family for years. Many, many thanks” J.U.

“Hi Claire, Thank you so much for an amazing service. The family were so pleased with the service. My brothers are very happy (with how it went).” L.S. x 

“Hello Claire, myself, Mum and Stuart just wanted to pass on our thanks to you. It’s been a week past now and we’re still getting calls and comments saying what a lovely service it was for Dad and how brilliantly you captured him. We are all so very grateful that you made his send off so special. Thanks again” K.C.

“You’ve done a great job!” C.L.

“Hello Claire, I just wanted to say a big, big thank you for the beautiful service. You captured Wayne perfectly. We all thought so. It was the send off I wanted for him. Thank you.” K.L.

“From all of Wayne’s family I would like to say a big thank you. I thought the service went off very well and depicted his short life to a tee, Thank you once again” B.R.

“Thank you for the script – it is wonderful!!!!!” P.H

“Dear Claire, Everyone thought you conducted a wonderful service yesterday, for which very many thanks. The lads were grateful for your booklet. Thank you for your lovely card, it has been so good to meet you. Take great care” F.M.

“Hi Claire, Thank you once again for a beautiful service for Dad. We had many people come up to us after and say how well it was conducted. Sitting outside watching the sunset and raising a glass to my lovely Dad.” B.H.

“Claire conducted an amazing ceremony at my Dad’s funeral – just the right balance. She thoughtfully listened to my Mum, myself and my sister and despite never having met my Dad, she managed to capture his life in a perfect way. Thank you Claire for giving my Dad a great ‘send off'” B.H. xx (5*review)

“Hello Claire, I would just like to thank you for the service yesterday. It was wonderful and my family and I couldn’t have wanted a better person to be a part of it. Thank you for all the support and love you gave my family yesterday. Your kindness couldn’t be appreciated more. P.B. xx

“Dear Claire, We would like to say thank you for your help and support with helping us to say goodbye to Sarah, We really did appreciate it. Many thanks” T&R.H.

“My Mum was the best person in the world to me and I believe Claire understood that. She gave me choices of what I wanted to do. Claire gave me the guidance I needed and showed me she cared about my Mum’s farewell and cared for me and my family. Even though Claire didn’t know my Mum, it almost felt like she did. I wish she could have met you. Claire has an amazing, rewarding job, but does not take it for granted. Saying goodbye is only something you do once and I believe I couldn’t have chosen a better person to be a part of the service. So on behalf of my family and myself – Thank you” P.B. (5* review)

“Dear Claire, A huge thank you for conducting what we all thought was a fitting tribute to Flora yesterday which was moving, caring and heartfelt. We realise that you do this as a full-time job, but how you maintain what is obviously a sincere feeling about your clients and their loved ones is amazing. Many, many thanks for helping us get through the day and for your many suggestions and for bringing it all together. If you ever need a reference from us, please don’t hesitate to ask. Kindest regards.” R&L.R.

“Hello Claire, I just wanted to express a special Thank You from the family for your part in yesterday’s ceremony.The whole event exceeded our expectations and your sincere participation helped enormously. I know you felt an emotional empathy with our bereavement which was clearly picked up and commented on by a number of our family and friends.You really did a superb job.” G.D.

“Thank you Claire for the beautiful service you delivered yesterday. At the after gathering people were talking about how personal if felt and what a difference it felt to the service. Thank you also for the booklet which will be treasured. The essence of my Dad was achieved and for that we are truly grateful.” L.M. 

“Very professional and she gives that most important personal touch. The service for our father touched the hearts of all that were there thanks to Claire. Her sensitivity and thoughtfulness knows no bounds.” L.M. (5* review)

“Hi Claire, Just a quick note to thank you for all your support and kindness leading up to and during Lily’s service. We have been touched and quite overwhelmed by your actions, and the actions of other also. This made a huge difference to how we could approach the day, allowing us to focus on ourselves, each other and of course Lily herself. Sincere thanks once again” N&C.M.

“Dear Claire, We want to thank you so much for delivering such a fine service for our Dad on Monday, for your kind words and for your help in preparing us for the funeral. Many of the guests said what a lovely service it had been. Many thanks S.C. and J.C.

“Hello Claire, Sorry it’s taken me this long to thank you for everything you did to give my Mum the wonderful final part to her life. Most of the people came back to the house afterwards and they all said to pass on their thanks for the great job you did. Just wanted you to know how much everyone enjoyed the service and thanks again for everything.” M.E.

Claire made my sister’s funeral so touching and emotional. She made it perfect keeping us updated with the scripts and allowing us to tweak it if we wanted. We were able to read everything before the day and Claire gave us ideas to perfect the ceremony. Very lovely professional lady and I would highly recommend this lady. She made our sister’s funeral perfect.x” J.J. (5* review)

Hello Claire, thank you for a beautiful service yesterday everybody commented how touching you made it and how passionate you were. You truly made it lovely thank you so much. xx J.J.

“Well where do I start.. Claire. Your services and your care of perfection is unbelievable!! Me and my family can’t thank you enough for how amazing you were for the celebration of my mums life.. I will forever be thanking you! Anyone reading these reviews, please take note.. This woman is amazing! She really is that good at what she does. Amazing woman! Loads of love to you Claire from me and all my family..
Ben xxxxxx” B.H. (5* review)

Claire is a very skilled writer & delivers her words in a very clear & caring way. She is passionate about her work & will spend the time you need to deliver the perfect service. My friend John wanted me to thank her for all her kindness in dealing so compassionately with him at a very difficult time in his life. He cannot speak more highly of her than that.” S.L. (5* review)

“I just wanted to say thank you so much for the beautiful service you did for Andrew yesterday. Everyone commented how lovely you spoke about Andrew and thought you were a friend as it was so personal… I really felt it was the best send off Andrew could have wished for… The box you gave me was a beautiful keepsake which we will treasure forever… Thank you again for making a difficult day seem easier.” S.H.

“Dear Claire, What can I say, thank you so very much for a beautiful, poignant and emotional service. You showed great empathy with Pauline which was noted by many people. It has helped me come to terms with my loss. I have recommended to Lesley (funeral arranger) that in future they should recommend yourself to future clients… Take care, many, many thanks again. Yours in true appreciation” J.C.

“...I have sat down and looked through the script you sent me. It is brilliant…. With thanks and very best wishes” J.D.

We just wanted to say a very big thank you for yesterday. We felt that (mum’s) tribute was just perfect and showed exactly how much my mum meant to us all. It was truly beautiful and we couldn’t have wished for it to be any better. Thank you for guiding us and having the patience to hear my mum’s story and retell it just as she would have wished it. Thank you for standing beside me and giving me the courage to pay my own tribute to my mum. I felt her strength with me yesterday, as I have each day since her passing. You give the most beautiful gift in delivering a loved ones final tribute. My mum would have loved the way you told her story. Thank you for your compassion and the kindness you have shown our family. It made my mum’s day so special for us all. We both hope to see you again one day, in happier circumstances. Good luck in all you do Claire, you give the most beautiful service to families. Thank you xxK.W. 

“Just wanted to drop you a short note to say how very, very grateful both Jo and I were with the service you gave for Mum on Friday. We have had so many people comment on your beautiful words and even question whether or not you actually knew my mother! The way you told Mum’s story was both moving and sensitive and really captured her personality. If ever you should need a recommendation then please do not hesitate to contact us as we couldn’t have wished for a better ‘goodbye’ for Mum and for that you have a special place in our hearts. Once again, heartfelt gratitude.” D.B. 

I am finally writing my “Thank You” cards today for all the friends and relatives who attended and gave flowers at Joy’s funeral service, and this special persons name was there, being you Claire. What can I say? For such a lovely service you delivered on our special day, I did detect a quivver in your voice, but who wouldn’t have? I know I would have had, that’s why I didn’t want to read my poem. Everyone I spoke to made a comment on how lovely you made the service, the words, the music, everything was perfect. It all went smoothly without a hitch, you should be very proud of yourself Claire.” G.H. 

I knew you were the perfect person to give Dan the best send off BUT you were absolutely superb. I acknowledge how difficult it must have been for you, knowing the family, having met Dan and let’s be honest, you couldn’t have more difficult clients than my family! We just wanted it perfect and you exceeded that.You spent so much time listening, reading and researching Dan and it showed, you left us all in awe.Watching you conduct the service, seeing you in total control, comforting the bereaved speakers and making the funeral a celebration of his life, with your words and delivery: helped us as a family begin to heal. At the “after” event everyone wanted to speak to you, thank you & the elderly take your card! (very ironic, as there for the grace of God go I)So many people complimented you on your eloquent words and delivery. My Lord you were brilliant!!! Everyone asked me, “Who is she?” I proudly and selfishly answered “One of my dearest friends” before I said ” The best celebrant you will ever come across.” And they all agreed. No one had ever been to a service like today, even the vicar was impressed (why was he there by the way? Was he a friend?) Claire – you have definitely found your calling. Being a celebrant is so you, it utilises your talents of writing, delivery and empathy. Dan would have picked you if he had the choice! Thank you for all the hours spent listening, reading, writing and delivering. You made the day and evening perfect.” D.KT. (5* review)

“Thank you so much for making Dan’s Celebration so special. I will never forget your words” D.S.

Thank you so much for everything yesterday. Everybody said how good you were and what a wonderful tribute to Diana. The compassion you felt was so evident in the way you spoke with everybody. We would have no hesitation in recommending your services to those in need”  J.W.

“My family and myself would just like to thank you so very much for such a lovely service for my Dad” C.B.

“Thank you, you made very difficult time a lot easier to deal with” V.C.

“You have done an amazing job and we are very happy with the tribute you have done” M.F.

Brilliant… Thank you so much. If I have to make a speech any time in the future, I will have to employ you!” G.W.